Sunday, November 11, 2012

PLANTING FRIENDSHIP!!!

While opening my facebook page, decided not to post anything but look on the home page and read some posts from my friends. Then i thought of reading all mail messages in my inbox and as i passed mail by mail, i met with a disturbing message saying "Do i exist to you", I replied it asking why. And it was answered that i never communicated with this friend of mine and that i never even bothered to reply back to the texts.
Worse enough i just remembered that she was not the only person complaining about me being so quiet.

Actually this text made me feel so guilty for being too busy and quiet and not even being able to spare a little time to remember my friends and relatives who take their time to remember me and think about me..

But the truth remains there that even though am so busy and do not spare some little time for my friends, in really sence I need them more than they can imagine.

Friends and relatives play a big role in my life, they are the people who add value to my purpose in life, they are my mentors and untiring shoulder that I can lean unto costless,

They are the people who give me warning and share their life experiences  that teaches me something, for instance i have this friend who made me realize the importance of being honest and true to yourself and not doing things to impress people or doing what everyone wants you to.  

His exact words were"Candy it is the only thing that will make you be called you, be your self and always stand for yourself, do not let people think for you,, people are always expecting big and it is hard to mantain how you impress them, its always good to be honest and present yourself as you'"

These words makes me who I am today, I always want to be honest with myself and i wont stick out my head to impress anyone. Am so greatful for this friend who through making stories just found himself telling me this and to me his words stuck in my memory and decided to work on them.

Just like my uncle who told me that Education is the only one thing that i will ever own for the rest of my life and that no one will ever take that away from me, made me work hard in school and even though i found my studies to be tough especially in my first year, I was not going to give up easly. I had to be tough too.

With the little education I have in my head, it makes me see the difference  with if i had no education at all(Thanks to my lovelyparents for taking me to school and providing me with everything).

All in all, we all need friends and we have a task if not a role of keeping them and cultivating the friendship.

We have to always stay positive(not to criticize, gossip or complain about others as we wont keep any friend by us.

Try to communicate, as there will be no any relationship without communication.

Should always stand by your friends, both in good and bad times.(remember Loyalty is the greatest seed in planting friendship,as we know that when people face crisis everyone leaves them, be there to provide support and comfort)

We should all reachout and reconnect,, doesnt matter how long you havent contacted ,, potentials  will always remain in the friendships  once enjoyed.

I LOVE ALL MY FRIENDS AND I BELIEVE THAT WE DID NOT BECOME FRIENDS BY ACCIDENT.
EACH OF YOU HAVE A SPECIAL SOMETHING THAT I APPRECIATE AND WILL ALWAYS TREASURE..

FORGIVE ME FOR NOT BEING THERE ALL THE TIMES FOR YOU BUT JUST KNOW THAT YOU ARE ALL HIGHLY VALUED..

love love
Candy.


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